Top 5 Cunnilingus Tips
1. Start slow
Don't be in a hurry to attack her clit. Kiss,
nibble, and suck on her mouth, her breasts, her thighs. Like
any sex act, she needs to be relaxed and ready before you start
getting serious. Even when you do make it down there, kiss and
lick and suck on all of her, not just her clit. Her labia need
attention too, and many women love having a tongue pushed up
inside of them.
2. Find the clit
You need to find the spot near or on her
clit that is "just right" for her, the area that,
with every flick of your tongue, sends surges of pleasure
through her body. No, we're not going to draw you a picture, or
describe a roadmap. The best way to find it is simply to ask
her. Each woman is slightly different in how she wants to be
stimulated, so tell her to give you guidance as your explore
her nether regions.
Note: some women find direct clitoral stimulation too
intense. You need to communicate to find the way to stimulate
her best.
3. Relax your tongue
Many men tense up their tongues and flick
the tip furiously against her clit. That's all wrong. A relaxed
tongue will do the trick better, using the broad flat part,
whether you flick it or just bob your head.
4. Use your hands
Your hands are free, so use them! A little
finger-fucking is a great complement to clitoral stimulation.
You can also caress her labia, lubed up with her own juices, of
course. If you're an adventuresome couple, even try putting a
finger or two up her ass. However, be careful not to put them
anywhere near the vagina after that. A pair of latex gloves and
water-based lube will definitely come in handy.
5. Get down to business
Once you've gotten her excited and figured
out her hot spots, it's time to get down to business. Flick
your tongue with a steady rhythm over her clit. Don't stop, and
don't change the rhythm. That's the key to making her come:
patience and a steady stroke. Don't vary things too much, and
for goodness sake, don't ask her "did you come yet?"
Let her fall naturally into an intense, mind-blowing orgasm
Eat Pussy Like a Pro
What woman doesn’t love to be expertly
eaten out? Oral sex done right can take your partner to new
heights of pleasure, but done wrong it can be an ordeal for
both of you. Munching rug should be no great mystery. These
tips will introduce you to some of the basics of cunnilingus
and help you go down like a pro. Don’t forget to come up for
air!
1. What’s that smell?
While some folks prefer their poontang to be
on the gamey side, for many people, fear of a funky odor or
taste is the chief barrier to going down on a woman. All women
do have a distinctive scent and flavor, and for some would-be
cunning linguists, these may be an acquired taste. However, if
your partner is clean and in good health, her taste and smell
should not be unpleasant or overwhelming. If you have concerns
about her hygiene, the most tactful approach is to suggest a
shared shower or bath before sex. If after a good soaping, her
pussy still smells like something crawled up it and died, or
she has unusual discharge, she probably has an infection and
should see a doctor.
2. Work your way up.
Take your time when you start to eat pussy.
Get her warmed up with some basic foreplay—kissing, fondling,
etc. It’s better to go down on a wet pussy than a dry one.
Once she’s aroused, make your descent. Try kissing and
tonguing her ankle or the sole of her foot. Then kiss and lick
your way slowly up the inside of her leg (the back of the knee
is a good erogenous zone, too). Tease her a bit more by kissing
and tonguing her inner thighs. Blow some air lightly over her
cooter. She’ll go nuts.
3. Get acquainted.
Once your face is up in her crotch, don’t
dive straight for her panic button. Explore the whole area with
your mouth. Gently probe with your tongue and locate her vagina
and clit. Suck on her labia. Get your whole face messy.
4. Get busy.
Now you want to go to work on her clit. The
key is to use your tongue and lips to suck and massage it
gently. Don’t poke at it or press too hard. Go in circles, go
up and down, flick back and forth lightly. There is no real
“right” way to go down on a woman; just make it up as you
go along and pay attention to what works. Vary your speed and
pressure and see what she responds to. When you hit the right
groove, you’ll probably know it because she’ll grab the
back of your head and clamp her thighs around your ears like a
vice. But to be on the safe side, ask her beforehand to let you
know what she likes. Once you hit her hot spot, there’s no
need to rush; just keep her engine revving. Feel free to
explore some other techniques or positions before you take her
over the top.
5. The ABCs.
This is perhaps the most common tip when you
eat pussy: use your tongue to trace the letters of the alphabet
on her clit. Some people swear by it. Personally, I don’t
recommend it. I don’t think it’s a good technique. Also,
it’s too much of a distraction, and if she catches you
humming the Alphabet Song under your breath, you’re busted.
You should be paying attention to her, not what comes after Q.
6. Use your hands.
You can create some wild sensations for her
by stimulating her clit with both your fingers and your tongue
simultaneously. Also, most women enjoy a finger or two in their
cunt while being eaten out. Insert your fingers with your palm
up, crook them slightly, and stroke toward you in a “come
hither” motion to hit her G-spot. A finger up the ass will
also drive her over the edge if she’s into anal play. (As
always, to avoid infection, if you put something in her ass,
make sure you don’t put it in her pussy afterward.)
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