Outside the realm of traditional lovemaking, there's a whole world of possibility revolving around secret desires and turn-ons. The word fetish is sometimes used to describe any intensely developed interest in some specific item, clothing, body part or activity, and the ways that interest has become sexual and arousing. Fetish play can be the avenue to sexual exploration and expression, and can go as far as the adventurous participants are willing to take it. Though not for everyone, fetish play is for many the epitome of sexual excitement and
satisfaction.
If you're like most people, you probably have some sexual desires and interests that fall a little off the traditional sex charts but stop short of the extreme category of edgy sexual behaviours. If so, you probably like the idea of trying out new sexual options as you begin to explore your wild side. For you, there are some bedroom-playground essentials - amazing props that work great to open up hot new possibilities without being over-the-top for either you or your
partners.
First, you might experiment with changing the texture and sensations of your usual sexual routine. This is accomplished by using special lubes or creams that make all your contact more erotic. You may have to experiment around to find the flavors and scents that are most arousing to you, and you will want to use a formula that also contains some "pleasure-booster"
ingredients.
Some products, like
Vigorelle for women and
VigRX Oil for men, contain these special pleasure boosters in the form of natural extracts that penetrate the skin and work internally. Instead of being just a plain lube that only creates slipperiness,
Vigorelle™ (www.vigorelle.com) and
VigRX Oil™ (www.vigrxoil.com) go beyond great wetness to actually increase blood flow to the genitals, increase the power of sensations and intensify the orgasm. Both of these products are water soluble, condom-safe and
edible.
Next you might want to give your sexual fantasies some new dimension with some enticing yet non-threatening bedroom props. The best we've ever found are made by Liberator, and include The Black Label Wedge kits of high-quality high-density foam wedges and ramps plus accessories that really get the ideas going. Remember, these were designed and made specifically for sex play - so they work better than anything else you can
improvise.
A great investment in your sex life is the Black Label Wedge/Ramp Combo that comes with wrist and ankle cuffs and more. (For some visual candy that demonstrates the hot possibilities, see the product info
here) Trust us, the money you spend on this kit will serve you better than a couple of nights out on the town ever could. It's the gift that keeps on giving, and for singles, it's the gift that keeps on tempting new partners to explore with
you.
Now that you've got the essentials covered, you might like to check out a
Fleece Lined Blindfold or one of these great kits for bringing some of your fantasy scenarios to life: The
Leather Beginners Bondage Kit, or a very fun little kit called the
Ona Zee's Beginner's B&D Kit. Just as a side note, ordering online is a very good way to preserve your privacy. Most good companies will ship in plain, discreet packaging, and use shipping and billing names that won't raise
suspicion.
Our advice for the budding fetishist in you: make the Liberator Wedge kit plus special lubes like
Vigorelle™ (www.vigorelle.com) and
VigRX Oil™ (www.vigrxoil.com) the foundation of your new adventurous sex life. And don't forget the most important prop: your
imagination!
