Dating Tip:

Competition with other men -
the "Cock Block"

Cock block: A dreaded situation that can seriously undermine your #1 spot as preferred stud with your woman.

Is cock block like writer's block, where you just can't get it to work? NO (that's another issue entirely!). We're talking about those attempts by all the other horny men out there to move in on your chick, even while you're just across the room. Infuriating! Humiliating! Emasculating!

The thing is, it doesn't have to be. The cock block is an important situation to know how to deal with, especially if you are dating highly desirable women - because if you play it right, you can come out looking even better!

Whether you've been dating for a while and she's already yours or you've just started putting in the ground work that evening, knowing how to deal with a cock block is a key skill in the dating game.

The first reality is that cock blocks happen first, and you can only react to them. There is no sure fire way to prevent a cock block. Unless you're a nasty looking dude, or extremely large and intimidating (and stand next to your date all night long) there will always be guys trying to hit on your girl. The only thing that 99% of us can do is to know how to handle a cock block with style.

Here's the key, gentlemen - most of you don't know how to effectively handle it and keep yourself looking good in the end. Why? In a word, emotions.

The prospect of having your date snatched away is fairly disturbing to most guys, and even more so when she's particularly attractive. It evokes feelings of fear (of loss), jealousy, and insecurity. And these feelings lead to reactions that make you look fearful, jealous, and insecure - the death knell to any man's game. 

You need to remain cool and confident, or at least appear to, while you're around this girl, so that when she is hit on, you don't turn into a needy wimp. Needy behavior is very unattractive to most women. You need to come out of the cock-block looking stronger than ever!
 

Here's how:

There are a couple of simple steps. Some of these are harder than they first appear, but once you get all of these pieces into place, you'll be unstoppable. You may even enjoy the occasional interloper hitting on your girl, because you'll come out looking even more attractive to her when they do.

So, you're off getting a couple of drinks, and turn back to find that a big, good-looking guy is now chatting up your girl, and he has her laughing hysterically. Crap, you've been cock-blocked! What to do?
  

Secret One: Believing that there are many fish in the sea

Get it burned into your head. Many men act insecure and jealous because they secretly believe they can't get another woman to replace this one. Get over it! Do whatever you have to in order to convince yourself that this is NOT the case, because this belief alone can kill your game, and allow a cock block to work! If you have confidence issues, start to automatically improve your situation by using the pheromone-based cologne Nexus Pheromones™ (www.NexusPheromones.com). Why? Because Nexus instantly and invisibly draws women to you and, without them even knowing it, makes them want to please you and be around you.

Now that all by itself is a tremendous confidence booster - and just knowing that you've got this secret weapon on your side can make such a difference in your attitude that you act, talk and walk like a truly secure and confident man. What's more, Nexus even causes men to react more favorably toward you. You've got an advantage in the cock block, and you have the certainty that you have plenty of other opportunities no matter what the outcome. No more clingy insecurity.

Next, take lessons on picking up women. An excellent source of such knowledge can be found at the Attract Women Now™ website (www.attractwomennow.com). Knowing that you can pick up anywhere, any time is key in building confidence, and any man can use more of this skill, so get cracking! This alone will improve your confidence (and overall game) tremendously.
 

Secret Two: Laugh it up

Humour is your number one best friend in this situation - it shows confidence, even if you do feel insecure! The ability to laugh shows you are comfortable with the situation, a trait that is highly attractive to women. Even if you're not comfortable, learn to pretend you are, until you become confident enough to just shake it off. Fake it 'till you make it!

Tease her: "I think you'd make a cute couple, you should date him…" then give her a mischievous grin with a sparkle in your eye. Make sure you are NOT taken seriously - it's got to be taken as a playful joke. Or, just say it all with a smirk of a smile, and a snort, like he's so pathetic it's ridiculous to even comment.

I've seen some guys casually watch it play out, and then giggle with her afterwards about the details. Remember not to be directly insulting about anything he did or said, because it makes you look insecure. Negativity is a real turn off for women, but funny comments are fair game. I've observed guys say things like, "so, where'd he go wrong?" and listen to the details with a humorous smile. If she hits you with sass, saying something like "he didn't - I'm getting his number later", laugh and say "I should have been taking notes", then move on. Joke with her about it, and then change the subject back to something about her - "Probably been working that game since high school… So what'd you do in high school?"
 

Secret Three: Expect and prepare for it

You have to realize that when dating attractive women you are going to get this, so be prepared when it happens. Look at yourself in the mirror and imagine yourself laughing it up. Tell yourself that you're the man she's with tonight, and that gives you the advantage. Think up a funny line or two for dealing with the situation should it arise. Go over your dating materials for some quick tips on charm. Every time it happens, look at your results, and remember the lessons so you can do even better for next time. Players practice their dating skills all the time, and so should you.

All of these approaches are more effective when you truly believe you are better than that dork. One way to be sure is to make yourself the best you can be. Keep yourself in top physical form (see the article about Fitness) and keep your own cock in top form by using the male supplement VigRX™ (www.vigrx.com). The added testosterone that this supplement can give you is also good for your confidence. You'll be able to deliver the goods even if you were rattled by the interloper's attempt to horn in.

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